The ComMUnity of Care program is a grant program funded by the Department of Justice

The program is working to build a safe campus culture around dating violence, domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. This program provides services such as educational programming, prevention, and resources for survivors.

View ComMUnity of Care Resource Guide to see campus, local, and national resources and information.

This project was supported by Grant No. 15JOVW-21-GG-02390-CAMP awarded by the Office on Violence Against Women, U.S. Department of Justice. The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this publication/program/exhibition are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the Department of Justice, Office on Violence Against Women.

Resources

There are two kinds of resources:

Confidential Resources: Confidential resources do not report crimes and/or violations to law enforcement or college officials without permission, except for extreme circumstances, such as a health and/or safety emergency.

Private Resource: Private resources are Marian University offices and employees who cannot guarantee confidentiality but will maintain privacy to the greatest extent possible, and information disclosed will be relayed only as necessary to investigate and/or seek resolution and to notify the Title IX Coordinator or designee.

Private resources are also known as mandatory reporters, as all Marian University employees are mandatory reporters unless they are listed as confidential. Mandatory reporters are required to share any instance of or information known about sexual harassment, including dating violence, domestic violence, sexual assault, or stalking, to the Title IX Coordinator.

counseling
Department Description
Counseling and Consultation Services
Clare Hall
ccs@marian.edu
(317) 955-6150
Provides free confidential services for all students. Monday - Friday 8 am - 4:30 pm. Emergency services on weekends and after hours on Main Campus: (317) 955-6789 and ask for the counselor on call.
The Student Health Center
Clare Hall, Room 126
StudentHealthCenterIndianapolisCampus@marian.edu
(317) 955-6154
The Student Health Center is available to all students available during the school year Monday-Friday. An appointment is preferred if possible. 
University Chaplain
Oldenburg Hall, Room 124
ffischer@marian.edu
(317) 955-6528
The current University Chaplain is Fr. Barry Fischer. The University Chaplain is the only confidential staff member in University Ministry. Other staff members may certainly be used as a resource and to support students, but they are still mandatory reporters. 

police
Department Description

Marian University Police Department
(317) 955-6789

The Marian University Police provide 24-hour-a-day patrol protection to the campus, including parking lots and residence halls. Marian University police officers are vested with full law enforcement powers and responsibilities. All offices that are employed by Marian University are required to be certified graduates of the Indiana Law Enforcement Academy. Marian University police are responsible for a full range of public safety services, including all crime reports, investigations, medical emergencies, fire emergencies, traffic accidents, enforcement of laws regulating underage drinking, the use of controlled substances, weapons, and all other incidents requiring police assistance. If you have a question about a crime or need to report a crime, you may come to the police department and ask to speak with a police officer. If someone has any injuries or disabilities that would prevent them from coming to our location, we will send an officer to their location. You may also send a tip to the Marian University police department using the CampusShield app on your cell phone. This tip may be sent with your name or anonymously.

Indianapolis Metropolitan Police Department (IMPD)

https://www.indy.gov/agency/indianapolis-metropolitan-police-department; 50 N Alabama Street

IMPD provides police services to Marion County. They are committed to the enforcement of laws to protect life and property, while also respecting individual rights, human dignity, and community values. You can contact police in an emergency by calling 911, or the non-emergency number at (317) 327-3811.

Victim Assistance Unit 

50 N. Alabama St, Indianapolis, IN 46204 (317) 327-3331
⁠TTY: (317) 327-3315

The Victim Assistance Unit is a 24-hour crisis intervention with a law enforcement agency. The Indianapolis Victim Assistance Unit helps anyone has experienced or witnessed a physical, emotional, or personal loss as a result of a criminal act. They may provide on-scene crisis intervention, emotional support, community referrals, and help navigating and understanding the criminal justice system. The Victim Assistance Unit helps with a wide variety of case, including domestic violence, assaults, and sex offences.       

departments
Department Description

Firefly Children and Family Alliance
advocacy@fireflyin.org
(317) 644-7992

Firefly offers free and confidential services for those in the Indianapolis community who are survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, human trafficking, and stalking at any point or stage in their journey or relationship. Some of their services include phone, virtual, or face-to-face meetings; emotional support and safe place to discuss feelings and needs; assistance with protective orders; court advocacy and accompaniment as well as guidance through the criminal justice system; community resource referrals; and support groups. Services are free, confidential, voluntary, and offer flexible support to students. See Survivor Rights for more information 
24/7 Survivor Advocacy Crisis Line
(833) 338-SASS (7277) 
Marion county crisis line, available 24/7. 
Center of Hope

Center of Hope locations can be found at certain hospitals in Indianapolis and provide specialized sexual assault treatment. They provide caring, private, and trauma-informed treatment from medical professionals and can help you understand your rights and next steps. See Sexual Assault Treatment under Student Rights for more information. 

RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network)
(800) 656-HOPE (4673)

You can call the national hotline or chat online with a trained staff member to provide confidential crisis support.  

National Domestic Violence Hotline
800-799-SAFE (7233) [TTY 800-787-3224] 

This crisis line provides 24/7 confidential, one-on-one support to each caller and person on live chat, offering crisis intervention, options for next steps and direct connection to sources for immediate safety for women, men, children, and families affected by domestic violence.

Julian Center
2011 N. Meridian Street
(317) 920-9320 

The Julian Center provides confidential services to those experiencing domestic violence, sexual violence, and stalking and has a continuum of care to offer survivors throughout their journey. They have an emergency shelter, counseling, and support group services, an empowerment support program, sexual assault advocacy, law enforcement advocacy, transitional and supportive housing, legal services, and extended support advocacy. 

Love is Respect
(866) 331-9474 [TTY (866) 331-8453]; Text “LOVEIS” to 22522 

Designed specifically for teens and young adults, Love is Respect provides 24/7 phone, text, and chat services and offers real-time, one-on-one confidential support from peer advocates. Message and data rates apply on text for help services. 
Indiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence Here you can find statewide domestic violence programs that serve survivors all across the state of Indiana.
Indiana Coalition to End Sexual Assault & Human Trafficking Here you can find Indiana Rape Crisis Centers available across Indiana.

offices provide support

These offices can provide support to individuals either currently seeking other resources, Title IX office support, or no other support. However, they are mandatory reporters and may have to share report information to Title IX.

 

 

Marian University Police Department

Paul J. Norman Center
(317) 955-6789

The Marian University Police provide 24-hour-a-day patrol protection to the campus, including parking lots and residence halls. Reporting to MUPD is a separate process than reporting to the university (i.e., through Title IX); however, MUPD officers are mandatory reporters. You can file a report through the university, MUPD, both of these, or neither of these. 

Personalized Learning Center

Clare Hall 109
plc@marian.edu
(317) 955-6540

The Personalized Learning Center is committed to supporting students with permanent, as well as temporary, disabilities. These supports are individualized to best support someone's unique needs with the Marian University environment, whether that be through the classroom, housing, dining, parking, or other engagements. 

University Ministry

Oldenburg Hall, First Floor
campusministry@marian.edu
(317) 955-6557

University Ministry staff are available resources, but are not confidential and are considered mandatory reporters.  The University Chaplain or ordained clergy members may be confidential when acting in that professional capacity. 

Global Engagement Office

Clare Hall 117
rhinkle@marian.edu
(317) 955-6670

 

Unity Center

Clare Hall
unitycenter@marian.edu

 

Residential & Commuter Life

Clare Hall 141, Clare Hall 123
housing@marian.edu
(317) 955-6318

 

Student Activities

Clare Hall 127 studentactivties@marian.edu
(317) 955-6638

 

First Year Experience

Clare Hall 127
fye@marian.edu
(317) 955-6354

 

The Exchange

Mother Theresa Hackelmeier Memorial Library, First Floor exchange@marian.edu
(317) 955-6500

 

Academic Commons

Mother Theresa Hackelmeier Memorial Library, First Floor
academiccommons@marian.edu

Encompasses tutoring, writing, library and media & IT support

Human Resources

Marian Hall 116
hr@marian.edu
(317) 955-6040

 

The Registrar

Marian Hall 104
regis@marian.edu
(317) 955-6050

 

See ComMUnity of Care Resource Guide to see on-campus, local, and national resources, as well as links to additional information and education.

ComMUnity of Care Resource Guide

Definitions

a) An employee of the recipient conditioning the provision of an aid, benefit, or service of the recipient on an individual’s participation in unwelcome sexual conduct;

b) Unwelcome conduct determined by a reasonable person to be so severe, pervasive, and objectively offensive that it effectively denies a person equal access to the recipient’s education;

c) dating violence, domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking, as defined below.

The use of physical violence, coercion, threats, intimidation, isolation, stalking, or other forms of emotional, sexual, or economic abuse directed towards a partner who is or has been in a dating relationship of a romantic or intimate nature.

Dating violence and domestic violence may be differentiated by:

  • Dating violence is committed
    • By a person who is or has been in a social relationship of a romantic or intimate nature with the victim; and
    • Where the existence of such a relationship shall be determined based on a consideration of the following factors: 1) The length of the relationship, 2) The type of relationship, and 3) The frequency of interaction between the persons involved in the relationship.
  • Domestic violence is committed
    • By a current or former spouse of the complainant
    • By a person with whom the complainant shares a child in common
    • By a person who is cohabitating with or has cohabitated with the complainant as a spouse
    • By a person similarly situated to a spouse of the complainant
    • By any other person against an adult or youth complainant who is protected from that person's acts under law.

Dating violence and/or domestic violence may also be referred to as intimate partner violence.

As a bystander, you may see the following that may indicate intimate partner violence:

  • Inability to make decisions - either about time spent, or even personal decisions like school or work 
  • Limited time spent out or with family, friends, or peers 
  • Lack of control over finances or how to spend money     
  • Disregarding, minimizing, or degrading identities, such as religion, languages, sexuality, gender expression, cultural practices or beliefs, traditions, activities, etc. 
  • Noticing control over online or social media use - who they can follow, how much time spent, password sharing, access to location, constant and/or unwelcome messaging, etc.   
  • Fear of threatening, intimidation, insulting, physical harm from their partner

Nonconsensual sexual act, including when the victim lacks the ability to consent (unconscious, under the influence, etc.).

Identifying Sexual Assault 

As a bystander, you may see the following before a sexual assault occurs: 

  • Pulling away from someone or unwanted touching   
  • Looking uncomfortable 
  • Pushing or shoving someone away  
  • Pressure to do something or go somewhere  
  • Intoxication (may be voluntary or involuntary) 
  • Fighting 
  • Hesitancy 
  • Giving in to appease the person trying to convince them 

You may notice sexual assault has occurred when a survivor: 

  • Acts scared or embarrassed 
  • Limits eye contact  
  • Unsure of the events or what exactly happened   
  • Avoiding specific places, situations, people, or conversations 
  • Changes in mood or personality  
  • Withdrawing from friendships or activities  
  • Has troubling with sleeping or unconsciousness  
  • Under-interested or hyper-interested in sex 

Engaging in a course of conduct directed at a specific person that would cause that person to fear for their safety or safety of others, or suffer emotional distress

Stalking is a pattern of behavior or multiple occurrences. Stalking is often something done by someone they know or someone they have had a close relationship with in the past (i.e. an ex) and can have someone feeling unsafe, on edge, and threatened.  

As a bystander, you may see the following that indicates stalking: 

  • Continuous communication to the person by phone, text, voicemail, email, socials media DMs, etc. 
  • Showing up unannounced at school, work, or home - includes after classes or activities, offices where they have on-campus jobs, outside of their dorm or apartment, or any place a part of their daily schedule  
  • Continuous contact to their personal network or loved ones - friends, workplace supervisors, professors, family member, etc. 
  • Using social media or technology to track activities, or finding new avenues to gain contact, such as making fake accounts or hacking into accounts  
  • Threats to them or their loved ones   
  • Getting unwanted gifts, notes, or flowers  
  • Destruction to personal property or home 
  • Always feeling on edge

Permission from all parties that is clear, knowing, voluntary, and expressed prior to engaging in and during an act. Consent is active, not passive. Silence cannot be interpreted as consent. Consent can be revoked at any time and cannot be given if they are impaired (unconscious, under the influence, etc.), coerced, or forced in some way 

When it comes to consent... consider FRIES:

Consent

The full definition of consent can be found in the Code of Student Rights and Responsibilities in Section Five: Title IX Policy. 

Any adverse employment or educational action taken against a person because of the person’s participation in a complaint or investigation of discrimination or sexual harassment

A witness or participant to an act of potential harm or misconduct  

Someone who acts to stop, intervene, interrupt or protect in a potentially harmful situation

 

You can become equipped to be an active bystander by attending a Green Dot training!

To see definitions for Title IX terminology, see Key Title IX Terminology

Explanation of Title IX

Title IX of the Higher Education Act of 1972 promises equal access to education for all students, and it protects them against discrimination on the basis of sex. As an institution of higher education receiving federal financial assistance, Marian University supports Title IX and works to ensure that all Marian University students have equal access to education. While Title IX does involve response to sexual harassment and sexual violence, it also includes discrimination in areas such as gender harassment, athletics, admissions, recruitment, scholarships, and support for pregnant and parenting students. Title IX does not only apply to female students. It protects any person from sex-based discrimination, regardless of their sex, gender identity, or gender expression.

As a Marian University student, you are entitled to safety, protection, and support.

Learn more about Title IX by visiting https://www.marian.edu/title-ix.

  • Contacting campus police by calling (317) 955-6789 or local law enforcement by calling 911; the dispatcher may ask if you would like to seek medical attention and to give a description of the respondent. 
  • Contact the Title IX Coordinator or one of the Deputy Coordinators using the contact information below.  
    • After hours, call (317) 924-2750 and ask to speak to the Title IX Coordinator. 
  • Report using the online form, or by accessing marian.edu/title-ix
    • When you submit this form, it is reviewed the Title IX Coordinator and/or Deputy IX Coordinator. You can submit with or without your name, but there is a limit to support that can be provided and actions that can be taken when you submit anonymously. They will reach out to the submitting party (if applicable) as soon as possible. 
  • If you do not feel comfortable using the above options, you may report to a trusted faculty or staff member. Since most Marian University employees are mandatory reporters, they can assist you in connecting to the Title IX Office. 

One may choose to utilize any or all options.

Karen Candlish (she/her)
Dean of Students and Title IX Coordinator  
Clare Hall, Room 122  
kcandlish@marian.edu  
(317) 955-6318

Clint Whitson (he/him)
Deputy Title IX Coordinator  
Evans Center, Room 109  
cwhitson@marian.edu
(317) 955-6611  

Cassie McCroskey (she/her)
Deputy Title IX Coordinator  
Marian Hall, Room 116  
cmccroskey@marian.edu  
(317) 955-6743  

The Title IX process and supports are available to all students, no matter sex, gender, race, religion, sexual orientation, citizenship or visa status, or any other identity.  

The Title IX process is a nuanced process and can become confusing quickly. Any person who has experienced or witnessed any sort sexual harassment can file a report on incident(s). Meeting with Title IX Coordinator is the first step, and the Title IX Coordinator discusses their rights, all possible options to proceed, and the supports and resources available. In the below flowchart, the fundamental Title IX process is outlined.

Title IX Flow Chart

sexual harrassment
Term Definition
Incident The instance of sexual harassment – any form of dating violence, domestic violence, sexual assault, or stalking.
Complainant Any person who is reported to have experienced conduct prohibited by university policy, regardless of whether that individual makes a report or participates in the review of that report by the university, and regardless of whether that person is a member of the university community. 
Respondent

Any member of the university community who is reported to have engaged in conduct prohibited by university policy.

Advisor

A designated person who provides support to an involved party member, such as an attorney, advocate, or another support person.

All Marian University students have access to a survivor advocate for free with Firefly Children and Family Alliance that can serve as their advocate.

Investigator An individual assigned by the Title IX Coordinator to investigate the alleged sexual harassment and oversee the investigative hearing.
Supportive Measures Support and resources available to the parties impacted by the incident. They are free to all students at any time and can be coordinated by the Title IX Coordinator. 
Report  Filing an incident of sexual harassment with the Title IX Coordinator.
Formal Complaint Filed by the complainant or the university that triggers the university's full investigation and hearing process under Title IX.
Formal Resolution Process (also an investigation)  Meetings with the investigator and the complainant, respondent, and witness(es) to gather relevant information.
Informal Resolution Process An informal resolution process allows both parties to come to a resolution without the formal resolution process and investigation, such as a mediated conversation or other restorative processes.
Hearing The decision maker reviews evidence with all parties and aims for a resolution.

Definitions taken from and adapted from Code of Student Rights and Responsibilities. 

When it is possible that the report or complaint cannot result in corrective actions or disciplinary sanctions, other remedial measures could be put in place, such as training on sexual harassment, increasing security in designated place, changing policy or procedures, or conducting a climate check.

Clery Act

The Jeanne Clery Disclosure of Campus Security Policy and Campus Crime Statistics Act (known as the Clery Act) is a federal law requiring United States colleges and universities that receive federal funding to disseminate a public annual security report (ASR) to employees and students every October 1st. This ASR must include statistics of campus crime for the preceding 3 calendar years, plus details about efforts taken to improve campus safety. Victims of sexual assault, domestic violence, dating violence, and stalking have specific rights, options, and resources guaranteed to them by the Clery Act.

Marian University Statistics 

Marian University is required to publish the Annual Security Report for the previous year on October 1st. Here you can find the 2022 report.

Coordinated Community Response Team

As a part of the OVW grant work, we have created a Coordinated Community Response Team (CCRT) to address prevention, intervention, and response of dating violence, domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. Members from across the campus community come together so we can to put into action our shared goals to address interpersonal violence at Marian University.

  • Create and affirm the vision for the overall direction of the grant; 
  • Ensure intuitional engagement and buy-in;  
  • Serve as the institutional body of expertise and decision-making body for the grant; 
  • Participate in assessment, planning, development, and implementation of grant deliverables; 
  • Serve as a learning community that continues to anticipate and response to the unique needs of our campus community; and  
  • Serve as ambassadors between the grant and the larger campus community 

We are leaders, allies, educators, and representatives of the Marian University community who work together to direct innovative approaches to preventing and responding to power-based personal violence for the benefit of all in our community. We center those who are most vulnerable in order to create a community where growth, leadership, and learning are encouraged through systemic shifting, trauma-informed, and culturally responsive processes and programs.

*Core members who have attended OVW training institutions. 

  • Kara Kubancsek*, Program Coordinator of ComMUnity of Care and OVW Project Director 
  • Sarah Balana Molter*, Director of Student Activities and OVW Project Supervisor 
  • Ruth Rodgers, Senior Vice President Leadership Integration and Student Success 
  • Karen Candlish*, Dean of Students and Title IX Coordinator 
  • Dr. Marla Smith, Director of the Counseling and Consultation Services 
  • Angelica Smith, Director of the Unity Center 
  • Scott McNamee, Executive Director of University Ministry 
  • Robert Richardson*, MUPD Chief Officer  
  • Allie Storke, Women’s Lacrosse Coach and Department of Athletics  
  • Jennifer Plumlee, Assistant Vice President for Student Success and Engagement 
  • Whitney Guthrie, Community Partner, Firefly Children and Family Alliance 
  • Sgt. Lawrence Cahill, Community Partner, Indianapolis Metropolitan Police Department 

We are currently seeking students for a student sector of the CCRT. If you are interested, please contact Kara Kubancsek at kkubancsek@marian.edu.  

Student Rights As a Marian University student, you are expected to follow all polices outlined in the Code of Student Rights and Responsibilities. This is updated each academic year.

Code of Student Rights and Responsibilities

Firefly Children and Family Alliance

All Marian University students have access to Survivor Services and Advocacy provided by Firefly Children and Family Alliance. The Survivor Advocacy program is a free, voluntary, confidential program for survivors of dating violence, domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. Advocates are available to assist and support survivors in understanding their rights, provide information on options and next steps, discuss safety and support the survivor’s decisions. Advocacy services are available at any stage of the healing process; there is no time limit on when to engage in services or for how long. They provide services to all survivors, regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, age, disability, or citizenship status. Bilingual advocates can work directly with survivors who speak Spanish and services are available using an interpreter for all other languages. Firefly is also Marion County’s certified Rape Crisis Center, so we provide 24/7 hospital response to the Centers of Hope at local hospitals if a sexual assault survivor comes in for a forensic exam and wants advocacy support. Survivor advocacy services include the following:

  • Phone, virtual and face-to-face advocacy: advocates can meet with individuals in our office or at a safe community location 
  • Emotional support, including support during a forensic exam at local Centers of Hope 
  • Assistance with protective orders 
  • Court advocacy & accompaniment (civil (divorce, custody, child support, etc.), protective order, criminal) 
  • Guidance through the criminal justice system 
  • Safety planning 
  • Community resource referrals 
  • Support for loved ones 
  • Secure space to discuss feelings and needs 
  • Educational and prevention programs 
  • Referrals to individual counseling 
  • Support groups 
  • And more  
If a survivor is interested in receiving advocacy services, they can reach out to Advocacy@fireflyin.org, or call 317-644-7992 to be connected to an advocate.

Firefly also offers different support groups for survivors. Survivors are invited to join these virtual groups and explore the healing process, develop coping tools, share in each other’s journey, and receive peer support in a safe, supportive environment. The support groups are free, confidential, and facilitated by Survivor Advocates. If interested in support groups or learning more, contact Support Group Coordinator, Maddy Klein, at (317) 644-7357 or via SupportGroups@fireflyin.org.

Current Firefly Support Groups  

  • Additional ongoing support groups

If this is an emergency:  

  • Contact someone at Marian University by calling (317) 924-2750 and ask for a counselor  
  • Marion County 24/7 crisis line: 833-338-SASS (7277) 
  • Chat online with a trained professional with RAINN or call (800) 656-HOPE (4673) 
  • Chat online with a trained professional with National Domestic Violence Hotline or call (800) 799-SAFE (7233) [TTY (800) 787-3224] or text ‘START” to 88788 
  • In an emergency of yours or someone's imminent safety, call 911 or campus police at (317) 955-6789

Center of Hope 

Center of Hope locations can be found at certain hospitals in Indianapolis and provide specialized sexual assault treatment. They provide caring, private, and trauma-informed treatment from medical professionals and can help you understand your rights and next steps. They provide forensic exams, also known as rape kits, and are provided free of cost to the survivor. Centers of Hope (COH) are located in the emergency rooms of the following hospitals: Franciscan Health (St. Francis), Community North, South & East, St Vincent, IU Health Methodist, and Eskenazi. Survivors should tell the front desk staff that they are seeking the COH, and they will connect the survivor to the COH. Remember, you have the right to have an advocate with you during the process, and the COH can help you call for one. 

Forensic exams, also known as rape kit, are a medical exam that collects evidence left behind from the assault. Exams are free to survivors, and no part of the exam is mandatory. There is no obligation to the survivor to use the exam for anything, but it can be used as evidence if they decide to report the assault to the police.

Indianapolis Hospitals with a Center of Hope:

  • Eskenazi: 720 Eskenazi Avenue (~3 miles from campus)
  • IU Heath Methodist: 1701 N Senate Blvd (~4 miles from campus)
  • Ascension St Vincent: 2001 W 86th Street (~8 miles from campus)
  • Community North: 7250 Clearvista Drive (~12 miles from campus)
  • Community East: 1500 N Ritter Ave (~11 miles from campus)
  • Community South: 1402 E County Line Rd (~20 miles from campus)
  • Franciscan Health (St. Francis): 8111 S Emerson Ave (~17 miles from campus)

Whether your sexual assault occurred in any affiliation with Marian University or not, you may be entitled to Title IX support from Marian University. If Marian University is involved in some way, you may be able to go through a Title IX process if you wish to report. In any case, you still have access to a survivor advocate. 

Supporting Survivors

It can be difficult to know what to say or how to best support survivors of intimate partner violence or sexual violence. Here are some ways you can support them:

Validate them. While a person wants to be listened to, they also want to know you are committed to being there for you and that you believe them. Here are some things you can say:

  • "I believe you."  
  • "I'm so sorry this happened to you." 
  • "This is not your fault." 
  • "I know that it can feel like you did something wrong, but you didn't." 
  • "I am here to listen and help you in any way I can." 
  • "You're not alone. I'm here for you and I'm glad you told me." 
  • "There are resources and supports that can help you."  
  • "No one has the right to hurt you." 

Listen to them. They may just want to tell their story without blame, sometimes they aren't even looking a response. Listen without judgment.  

Know about the resources, or where to find them. Tell them about the resources available, on and off campus. Firefly provides their services to the Marion County/Indianapolis community. 

ComMUnity of Care Resource Guide

Offer your physical presence of support. You may offer to be with them if they want to file a report, receive medical care, offer to walk with them to the Counseling and Consultation Services office for their appointment, to their support group, or any instance where your physical presence would be comforting. 

Resist violent or extreme reactions. Remain calm and collected. 

Do not make promises that you cannot keep. You only have certainty about the actions you can make, not others. 

Ask how you can help them! Only they know how you can best support them.  

Understand this is not about you. They may not want to share who the abuser or perpetrator is or certain details with you, and that is their right. 

Recognize it is their choice to decide who to tell, what to tell, and when to tell.

Make sure you care for yourself. It is wonderful that you feel that you can support your friend, but there is a limit to processing trauma, even if it is second-hand. Make sure you know of your support and how you need self-care.

Additional resources:  

Information for Faculty and Staff

As a faculty or staff member of Marian University, you are a required mandatory reporter. This means you must report any disclosure of information of sexual harassment (dating violence, domestic violence, sexual assault, stalking, or unwelcome sexual conduct) or any information that would lead a reasonable person to believe that sexual harassment may have occurred immediately to your supervisor or the Title IX Coordinator. If you are unsure of what these crimes of sexual harassment are, please refer to Definitions

  • The only employees exempt from mandatory reporting are employees in The Student Health Center, Counseling and Consultation Services, and the University Chaplain. 
  • Student employees, including, but not limited to resident assistants, peer mentors, peer educators, peer tutors, orientation leaders, student workers, and federal work study student workers, are also all mandatory reports and should share that information immediately to their supervisor or the Title IX Coordinator.  

More information about an employee’s duty to report can be found the Code of Student Rights and Responsibilities in Section 5, subsection E.  

If you feel that you a student may be about to share something that may require your mandatory reporter duties, here are some things you can say:  

  • It sounds like you might be about to share something that I might need to report to the university. I am happy to keep listening if you’d like, but also understand if you would like to finish this conversation. If not, I can connect you to some more confidential or other resources to support you. 
  • I’m grateful you feel comfortable enough to speak with me, and for the most part everything we talk about can remain between us, but some of what you’ve shared gives me reason to think I might need to share information that I am required to share as a mandatory reporter so that we can provide with you with additional support.  
  • Before you continue, I will share that I am legally mandated to report information around sexual harassment and interpersonal violence and may need to share what you say to the Title IX Coordinator. This does not mean you are trouble in any way, but it is so we can provide you with support.  
  • I would be glad to connect with some confidential resources and you can choose to engage with those resources however you feel most comfortable.  

Mandatory reporting is applicable whether the situation involves students, employees and students, or employees. 

See Title IX contacts for contact information for Title IX Coordinator.

Understand that once you share that information with Title IX, you are not entitled to any of the information after that point, including the investigation and resolution(s) unless the student(s) chooses to voluntarily share that information with you.

ComMUnity of Care can provide trainings and education with departments and offices on campus to continue to educate our community around dating and domestic violence, sexual assault, stalking, and trauma-informed practices. In addition, Marian has adopted a bystander intervention program, Green Dot, and we can provide a 90 minute overview to faculty and staff to show how they can be allies to changing the campus culture. To inquire more about these opportunities, please reach out to kkubancsek@marian.edu.

Trainings and Events

Green Dot approaches all students, staff, administrators, and faculty as allies. The original Green Dot program was conceived in the college setting to prevent dating violence, sexual violence, and stalking. It relies on the premise that if everyone does their small part and commits to individual responsibility, the combined effect is a safe campus culture that is intolerant of violence. The college-based curriculum draws heavily on the experiences of college students and the reality of this issue in their lives. This curriculum uses interactive activities to reinforce core concepts and encourages students to envision their future and the world in which they want to live, then aligns their bystander behavior with that vision. 

Not everyone can do everything, but everyone can do something!

Green Dot

 Green Dot bystander intervention training is a 4-hour interactive workshop designed for students to understand what it means to be an active bystander and how they can play a role in culture shift. However, there is also a 75-minute overview that can be done with students as well. In addition, our trainers are equipped with an overview for faculty, staff, and administrators as well.  Please inquire here if you are interested in bringing a Green Dot training to your student group, organization, classroom, team, office, or department.

Our interactive workshops use captivating films, peer-to-peer discussions, and immersive activities to start life-changing conversations about healthy and unhealthy relationships. Click here to learn more about One Love. To inquire more about these workshops, contact Kara at kkubancsek@marian.edu.

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Awareness Months

Attend programming from ComMUnity of Care program, especially programming during awareness months.

  • Domestic Violence Awareness Month – October
  • National Stalking Awareness Month – January
  • Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention Month – April

Volunteer with Firefly Children and Family Alliance as a Survivor Advocate

The only requirement is that volunteers are ready to learn, listen, and practice empathy. Training is provided to volunteers to prepare advocates. Learn more here -  Volunteer as a Survivor Advocate. To inquire about this opportunity, email Survivor Advocate Volunteer Coordinator bhall@fireflyIN.org.

Bring an educational training to your student group, class, or department

If you have a specific topic in mind, but do not see it mentioned anywhere, reach out as we have connections with community partners that provide lots of community trainings on various topics.

Keep the resource document readily available to share with friends if ever needed.

Engage in proactive behaviors that support survivors and our violence-free community.

Follow social media accounts to continue learning about these topics and how you can be an ally and continuing educating yourself!

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For more information

Kara Kubancsek, MSW '21
Program Coordinator
kkubancsek@marian.edu 
(317) 955-6702

Office of Student Activities
Clare Hall, Room 127C

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